Consent Issues Exchange 2021 letter

[ungefug]

1. General
2. Art
3. Likes
4. Do Not Write
5. Prompts

General

Hey there! Thank you for writing for me. I'll try to explain some of the things I love, but in the end its your writing and I'm happy to read whatever you come up with. If you feel like "this is too weird, too out there, I shouldn't" - don't worry. I'd rather be surprised than bored. And write what you're comfortable with.

I've given the freeform tags that go with my ships/prompts, but I understand that this is not how the official matching works and you're not bound by it and welcome to change things around (like if I put watersports on one ship but you can also write that with a different ship, clearly I am ok with the kink) or write the prompts without actually covering those specific tags.

My fav tag is Dead Dove : Do Not Eat.



Sometimes the more awkward, uncomfortable, “real” the sex, the better. It does not have to be glorified or even sexy. Generally speaking, the actual penetrative sex is not what interests me most, it's about emotions and aesthetics, so I won't feel underwhelmed if it's just a couple lines or they don't touch on all the bases.

I enjoy depictions of noncon/dubcon on a scale from absolutely horribly realistic, violent, without any sexual pleasure on the victim's part to physically enjoyable or harmless, but mentally upsetting (shame, humiliation, unwilling arousal, break of trust). I'm just really not into "noncon on paper but actually everyone has a good time" ravishing and in particular scenes where one character rejects someone's advances, is forced into intercourse and the narrative presents it like they always wanted this all along. I do mean: narrative. A rapist saying this to their victim or them feeling like they asked for it etc is an entirely different thing. Sorry for rambling, you really don't need to overthink this part, I think the vibes are pretty clear from my prompts.

I don't require a happy ending, I'm fine someone ending up feeling miserable with no closure, but I do also like seeing signs of trauma or repression, which would come afterwards, like trying to hide the evidence of assault or rationalizing it away. I do also like comfort and aftercare and loved ones helping victims cope.

I generally take sadistic enjoyment in seeing my mew mews suffer. It's honestly a form of flattery through martyrdom to me and I like to see their strength as much as their weakness.

I run this blog if it is of help :)

Art

I don't have any specific art prompts but some of the narrative ones might lend themselves to art. Or just give me something twisted.
As for art styles it feels silly to tell an artist how to draw, but I can say that I love medieval art and early Renaissance and then fast forward past all realism to the 20th century. Then I like the 1910s and 1920s a lot, silent films, expressionist dance, the grotesque. I'm generally fond of things being abstract, distorted, heightened and symbolic rather than realistic.
For smut I care a lot more about props (including clothing!) and poses than genitalia and I am partial to thick guys with a bit of meat and hair on them in positions of distress.

Likes

• obscene, grotesque disgusting things described beautifully (or not)
• violence, gore
• hurt and comfort, hurt and hurt
• tormented saints, religious imagery
• very bad things happening to my little mew mews
• the breaking point, catharsis, awakenings, trauma
• hierarchies, abuse of power, stifling environments, coded language, uniforms
• hand holding, hand kissing, neck touches, chaste kisses, displays of fealty
• dialogue

• pastiche, archaic language, unusual form
• unreliable narrators, rapist pov
• letters, diary entries, events relayed in conversation
• 1st person (as commonly used in literature, I'm saying this specifically because I see it in so many DNWs)

Smut:

I have a general purpose list of smut things that interest me here.

• non-penetrative sex (oral, intercrural, handjobs, frottage etc)
• unhygenic sex and body fluids
• sadism and masochism
• realistic bodies (body fat, hair, small dicks etc, especially body hair)
• clothed sex
• differences in size and body type (in particular if the bigger guy is not "topping")
• unpleasant, awkward sex
• altered states of awareness or bodily weakness (illness, wounds, drugs, sleep, exhaustion)
• crying, whimpering, trembling
• wound fingering, blood loss, disembowelment, strangulation
• kneeling, whipping, practical bondage, blindfolds
• manhandling, overpowering, beating victims into submission
• victims ending up covered in mud or other filth
• (forced) arousal resulting in humiliation

Do Not Write

• underage sex written to arouse (especially prepubescent, I might be ok with late-ish teen)
• mundane bdsm/kink things* (formal negotiations, sex toys, diapers, daddy/mommy kink, latex outfits, roleplay, whipping in the bedroom rather than as corporal punishment on deck of the ship)
• terminal illness, cancer*
• dementia, amnesia, Alzheimer's*
• infantilization
• mpreg, kidfic
• mundane modern AU (coffee shop, college, rock band etc.)
• significant changes to canon characters such as sex, race, age or ethnicity
• alpha/beta/omega (and similar worldbuilding with assigned roles)

*mentions are ok.

Prompts

1. The Terror (TV 2018) #1
2. The Terror (TV 2018) #2
3. Hannibal (TV)
4. Sherlock Holmes - Arthur Conan Doyle
5. Ancient Greek Religion & Lore
6. Alien Series

The Terror (TV 2018) #1
Ship Officers xcon Thomas Jopson, Henry T. D. Le Vesconte xcons Thomas Jopson, Francis Crozier xcons Thomas Jopson, Francis Crozier makes Thomas Jopson & Cornelius Hickey mxcon, Cornelius Hickey makes Francis Crozier & Thomas Jopson mxcon, Cornelius Hickey xcons Thomas Jopson

• Humiliation - Based on Class Status
• Motive - Break the Haughty
• Humiliation - Forced Petplay
• Attitude - Victim Suffers Stoically
• Aftermath - victim unable to hide evidence of rape from others
• Scenario - Aggressor makes mxcon victims praise each other
• Intimacy - Forced to Share Sexual Fantasies
• Attitude - Victim Finds Emotional Catharsis In Submission
• Arousal - Unwilling
• Arousal - Unaroused Victim
• Violence - Victims are Forced to Physically Harm One Another

These are all centered around Jopson and I like to see failed or partially succesful attempts at "breaking" him and by that I mean his restraint, his neatness, his controlled language, his attempts at behaving "above his class". I'd like to see some bite, not just whimpering victimhood. I can also see him being completely disconnected from his body and what's being done to it, considering sexual services not anything special. I'm cool with any flavour of sexual orientation and experience on Jops, straight, gay, ace, sex repulsed, virgin, with sex related trauma baggage etc. I am also fond of giving him masochistic leanings (which he might be ashamed of or actually confidently ok with?). I also like his gloves (getting them dirty) and body hair.

Some ideas:
There is Hickey being obsessed with Crozier and jealous of Jopson's position while also considering him some class traitor and being intent to prove that Jops is just as "low" as Hickey.
Vesconte or just any upper class posh boys trying to "put him in his place." Perhaps even some "fix it and make it worse again" AU, where he makes it home and Jopson suffers the weight of classism despite his promotion (might I interest you in Lieutenant Jopson?).
Jopson is alive by the end at starvation cove and is with Vesconte who has a personal vendetta, demotes him and makes him his steward/pet demanding sexual favours, makes him beg for food, boot licking, spitting on him, verbal abuse, watersport and so on.
Same thing can happen if he were in Hickey's hands at mutiny camp. Hickey might make Crozier an audience to that or force Crozier to participate. Jopson might offer himself in return for Crozier's safety, anything that hinges on his love (sexual or asexual) for Crozier.
Hickey who is convinced that Jops and Crozier must have something sexual going on because that's the only way he can see the world, forces them to these acts, because he thinks he's showing them their true self (maybe his is, maybe he isn't).

Francis Crozier xcons Thomas Jopson, Francis Crozier makes Thomas Jopson & Cornelius Hickey mxcon

• Abuse of Authority - Victim Can't Consent Due to Power Imbalance
• Scenario - Xcon by proxy
• Inexperience - Uninformed Consent Leads to Unpleasant Sex
• Altered States - Victim Is Too Intoxicated to Consent
• Attitude - Aggressor in Denial About It Being Xcon

Rock bottom Crozier forces himself on Jopson. Perhaps jealousy issues because he thinks Jops is making eyes at some else. Gets him drunk? Just acting like a sleazy old man, fondling and so on and Jops just having to bear it or pressured into sex that turns out worse than he expected. Or... Crozier can't get it up and uses Jops to fuck Hickey with no regard for his feelings about that. He sends Jops out to keep an eye on Hickey or keep him in check. Complete disregard for his personal autonomy. Perhaps calling him a molly, like he knows/thinks Jops is gay so clearly he must want this.

Thomas Jopson xcons Francis Crozier

• Altered States - Victim Is Too Intoxicated to Consent
• Altered States - Somnophilia
• Attitude - Aggressor in Denial About It Being Xcon
• Motive - Aggressor In Love With Victim

Creepy one sided affection turns bad, Jops takes advantage of an intoxicated or otherwise weakened Crozier. Somnophilia? Absolutely nothing brutal of course, he loves his captain, Crozier clearly just doesn't know what's good for him. He can serve him so many ways if he'd just let him.

Thomas Jopson xcons Cornelius Hickey, Cornelius Hickey xcons Thomas Jopson

• Motive - Break the Haughty
• Anal - Penetration as an act of dominance
• Comeplay - Forced to Eat Come
• Watersports - Piss Enema

Both of these already came up before but I like any variations on them fighting and or/fucking where it's a struggle for power. Hickey tries to break Jops but Jops turns the tables on him or belittles him. Jops tries to humiliate Hickey but Hickey smiles it off and Jops just feels miserable and dirty about it afterwards. Knife fights? Jopson just snapping and showing his feral side. They might have a shared history (street life, sex work).


The Terror (TV 2018) #2
Stephen S. Stanley xcons Harry D. S. Goodsir

• Scenario - Medical examination that involves noncon fingerfucking and object insertion
• Motive - medical or therapeutic justifications for xcon
• Medical - Catheters
• Coercion - Gaslighting
• Abuse of Authority - Aggressor Takes Advantage of Subordinates
• Aftermath - Aggressor Performs Aftercare
• Attitude - Aggressor is totally nonchalant about xcon
• Sex Pollen - Aggressor purposefully sex pollens victim(s)
• Gender/Sexuality - Asexual Victim
• Watersports - Victim Wets Self

I read a fic which had Goodsir complaining about Stanley sexually harassing him and it kind of stuck with me, because of how genuinely terribly sorry it made me feel for Goodsir. This terrible feeling is what I am looking for. Forced medical procedures (Goodsir really is some kind of sick or it's just the classic hysteria excuse), possessive fawning, gaslighting, sadism or harassment. Ace, autistic or virgin Goodsir is interesting or a combination thereof, but I also like him curious, or detached and scientific about sex. Goodsir could be completely naive or fully aware of what Stanley is doing to him but unable to change anything about it.

Hannibal (TV)  
Margot Verger xcons Will Graham, Hannibal Lecter makes Abigail Hobbs & Will Graham mxcon, Abigail Hobbs xcons Will Graham

• Penetration - Victim forced to penetrate
• Arousal - Unwilling

Variations of women force themselve on Will and he is into women, but he doesn't want it like this. Let's say Will isn't as cooperative in Margot's plan in getting him to father a heir and she ends up forcing herself on him. Drugs, alcohol, not taking no for an answer, etc. Could be written to be very unpleasant or just as some wish fulfillment for a girl who wants to force herself on Will and see him shy and trembling. Probably the mildest thing I am suggesting here. I just think it'd be cute.
With Abigail it's even more twisted with the whole father issues thing. Brainwashing, hypnosis, gaslighting could be involved, probably induced by Hannibal who might just be getting off on it too.

Dr. Cordell Doemling xcons Will Graham

• Arousal - Unwilling
• Arousal - Unaroused Victim
• Scenario - Medical examination that involves noncon fingerfucking and object insertion

He's a creepy fucker. Seeing him fondle Will's face in that deleted scene.. He might simply think Will is pretty to play with or he doesn't appreciate being bitten. It could be molestation, edging, fingering as humiliation, just plain old rape, something medical. Maybe Hannibal even happens to watch.

Dr. Cordell Doemling xcons Hannibal Lecter, Alana Bloom xcons Hannibal Lecter, Francis Dolarhyde xcons Hannibal Lecter

• Anal - Penetration as an act of dominance
• Motive - Break the Haughty
• Humiliation - Verbal
• Penetration - Victim Forced to Penetrate Self
• Arousal - Forced Orgasm Until Victim Passes Out
• Arousal - Unwilling
• Arousal - Unaroused Victim
• Praise - Forced to Thank/Praise Aggressor
• Violence - Extremely Violent Xcon
• Violence - Fucked Until Unconscious
• Violence - xcon while victim is bleeding out
  

I like to see him suffering and humiliated hence a bouquet of scenes from the canon in which Hannibal is in the hands of people that want to hurt him. With Francis I don't mind absolutely brutal stuff. Add some sex to a fight scene or fight to a sex scene. Will may  be standing by with a glass of wine, enjoying the view or it can be without his involvement.
With Alana I'm thinking of the time when he's imprisoned. I see her humiliating him rather than violently assaulting, but maybe she gets helpers for that. Maybe he wrote Margot a nasty postcard or she can't stand his lesbian jokes any longer and gets cross with him. Some random thoughts: stepping on his dick, humiliate him for his arousal, putting a collar on him, make him jerk off, make him finger himself, make him eat fast food.

Sherlock Holmes - Arthur Conan Doyle  
Original Character(s) xcon Sherlock Holmes, James Moriarty xcons Sherlock Holmes (SH ACD)

• Anal - Penetration as an act of dominance
• Aftermath - Medical treatment after xcon
• Gender/Sexuality - Asexual
• Victim Inexperience - Virginal Victim
• Aftermath - victim unable to hide evidence of rape from others
• Violence - Violent Xcon

I heavily favour ace and/or sex repulsed head canons of Holmes and would simply like to see him molested or raped by a villain. Whether it breaks him (initially) or he keeps his cool is up to you. It being seen by Watson and/or Watson aftercare is nice too. I would not just enjoy an explicit telling of it where we get to see it all, but also something where Holmes talks about it and we get like the filter of language of that time, being super scientific about it, disassociation. Maybe Watson helps him bring it out. Sherlock POV is good too, he did pick up the pen occasionally.

John Watson xcons Sherlock Holmes (Sherlock Holmes - Arthur Conan Doyle), Any Villain makes John Watson xcon Sherlock Holmes (SH ACD)

• Altered States - Consensual Drugging Leads to Xcon
• Intimacy - Victim Treated Like Lover
• Attitude - Aggressor in Denial About It Being Xcon

I see Watson as swooning over and physically attracted to Holmes and would like to see Watson either deluding himself into thinking Holmes consents to his affections or them being forced to it or some mix thereof. If you've ever read even glimpses of "The Case of Erudition Toward Reliance" you might get a good idea of the kind of absolutely abusive and rape-y things Watson could do to Holmes without ever letting on that it's not ok. Especially nice if presented in distanced language through an unreliable narrator (Watson). I'm not looking for physical abuse or use of force here. Anything medical is fun too, Watson taking liberties with aftercare after some case. Also for either prompt, Holmes being too drugged to get it up is nice too.

Ancient Greek Religion & Lore  
Maenads xcon Pentheus

• Body Horror - Guro
• Attitude - Feral Behavior
• Position - In Victim's Blood
• Violence - Extremely Violent Xcon
• Death - Xconned to Death

Dionysus xcons Pentheus

• Mind Control - Into Obedient Sex Slave
• Gender/Sexuality - Forced Feminization
  

I love the theme of  Euripide's The Bacchae with the conflict between the clear headed, stern, puritanical patriarch and Dionysus as his foil. The simmering subconscious or id and what it does to a man if he tries to surpress that. I don't care about it being entirely true to the source material, but there are two clear moments when it could happen (Dionysus bewitches and dresses Pentheus and then Pentheus's mauling). It's also described in Ovid's Metamorphoses.. You can be as pretentious as your heart desires, imitating the style if you feel comfortable with that.
I like the aspect of animalistic frenzy and "the Dionysian" in the Maenads assault and the reversal of gender roles. The violation of a supposedly hyper masculine man by frenzied, "hysteric" women or simply more kindly,  introducing him to his own latent feminine desires - seduced, manipulated, controlled, brainwashed by Dionysus himself. I like the proto-feminist angle that Dionysus gives women the power to live deliciously on their own and to overpower any man, reversing their roles. I suppose dicks could be grown by magic too if you so desire. ;^)
Both at the same time are welcome too.

Alien Series
Meredith Vickers xcons David 8

• Abuse of Authority - Victim Can't Consent Due to Power Imbalance
• Position - Forced to Kneel
• Humiliation - Victim Not Viewed as a Person Because of What They Are
• Mind Control - Victim with computerized brain is reprogrammed as part of the xcon
• D/S - Forced Submission

I have simple needs. David is very cute when he is forced to serve the woman that hates him for what he is and I'd like to see her served other ways or simply bully David 8, because of her jealousy and general disdain for the mechanical man. I am also fond of David's obession with Lawrence of Arabia (same, David), if that can somehow find its way in. She could use him for her pleasure, try to humiliate him (fuck around with his programming, turn parts of his body off?).

Xenomorph xcons David 8, Neomorph xcons David 8

• Xeno
• Scenario - Aggressor is Non-Sentient
• Medical - Medical/Scientific Examination
• Penetration - Dick Forced Into Throat

A bit out there. I like David's interactions with the Neomorph and I would like to see some kind of weird xeno/robot sex (taking inspiration directly from Giger perhaps). The xenomorph tries to inseminate him but obviously fails (maybe there are some weird side effects). He tries to appease the creature he loves or is simply brutaly overpowered. He consents to some intimacy but it goes south and endangers his physical wellbeing. He is physically suffering but utterly taken by the lovely creature and what fun things it does to him. I am not particularly interested in seeing him impregnated and go through the terms or anything heavily focusing on that aftermath.